{"id":361,"date":"2015-02-18T15:00:16","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T21:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/?p=361"},"modified":"2023-03-07T18:10:03","modified_gmt":"2023-03-08T00:10:03","slug":"everything-reminds-me-of-my-dog-with-andrea-g","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/real-happiness-challenge\/real-happiness-2015\/everything-reminds-me-of-my-dog-with-andrea-g\/","title":{"rendered":"Everything reminds me of my dog \u2013 with Andrea G"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The loving kindness practice normally starts by directing kind phrases towards ourselves, then branching out to a benefactor, neutral person, difficult person, and then all beings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like many people, I find directing phrases of kindness towards myself to be difficult. Like <a href=\"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/real-happiness-challenge\/real-happiness-2015\/worthless-wanda-knocks-again\/\">Carol<\/a>, I have a vocal self-critic who likes remind me of my many failings, weaknesses, and *gasp* humanness. &#x1f642;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On a few occasions, <a href=\"http:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/leadership\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">our teacher<\/a> has led a loving kindness meditation with a bit of a twist. Instead of diving in and sending kind phrases to ourselves, we first visualize some being who loves us unconditionally, and imagine ourselves receiving the phrases from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s easy\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?resize=225%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A sable and white rough collie and a white lab-shepherd mix are sitting close together. It looks like they are smiling. They are sitting on a gravel path next to a grassy hill. There are rocks and bushes and a stream in the background.\" class=\"wp-image-4498\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?resize=1200%2C1600&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20140525_105348.jpg?w=1440&amp;ssl=1 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Those soft brown eyes that look at me so lovingly. The wagging tails that greet me any time I walk in the door. My furry friends who cuddle close when I read a book, and who sit with me when I meditate. They regularly show me the everyday joys in the simple things, like fresh snow, finding sticks, and meeting friends old and new.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I feel that love radiating to me, I find that it\u2019s easier to accept the loving kindness phrases for myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I find, as <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/fLJ1mPsOIQ4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jane Siberry sings<\/a>,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Everything reminds me of my dog<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/1075699_420197238095301_1594193846_n.jpg?resize=199%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"The head and ears of a rough collie, with a sable head, perky ears, black eyes and nose, and some white on the snout and neck. The mouth is open and a pink tongue is visible. It looks like the dog is smiling.\" class=\"wp-image-4501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/1075699_420197238095301_1594193846_n.jpg?resize=199%2C300&amp;ssl=1 199w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/1075699_420197238095301_1594193846_n.jpg?w=638&amp;ssl=1 638w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 199px) 85vw, 199px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a title=\"Photo credit Eleanor Walker Photography, posted with permission.\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/EleanorWalkerPhotography\" target=\"_blank\">Photo credit Eleanor Walker Photography<\/a>, posted with permission.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s even easier to direct the phrases to others, with meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>If you remind me of my dog<br>We\u2019ll probably git along little doggie git along<br>Git along little doggie\u2026<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A sable and white rough collie sits next to a light colored lab-mix. They are sitting on a some grass surrounded by green brush. The Saskatoon city skyline is behind them - the University Bridge and some buildings in the downtown district.\" class=\"wp-image-4504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?resize=1200%2C900&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/DSCN3398.jpg?w=1680&amp;ssl=1 1680w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The kindness I get from my dogs extends further.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Beautiful things remind me, too<br>Sunsets remind me of my dog<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"A white-ish lab-mix is sitting on the edge of a gravel road, next to a ditch with some uneven grass. The road extends towards the horizon. The sky has a post-sunset glow of orange, pink, light cloud.\" class=\"wp-image-4506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?resize=1200%2C900&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/20131101_173833.jpg?w=1680&amp;ssl=1 1680w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>And so my loving kindness practice extends beyond my little self and into the universe, as inspired by my dogs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>May all beings be safe.<br>May all beings be happy.<br>May all beings be healthy.<br>May all beings live with ease.<\/em><br>\u2014 Andrea G (and Savanna and Reece too!)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The loving kindness practice normally starts by directing kind phrases towards ourselves, then branching out to a benefactor, neutral person, difficult person, and then all beings. Like many people, I find directing phrases of kindness towards myself to be difficult. Like Carol, I have a vocal self-critic who likes remind me of my many failings, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/real-happiness-challenge\/real-happiness-2015\/everything-reminds-me-of-my-dog-with-andrea-g\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Everything reminds me of my dog \u2013 with Andrea G&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-real-happiness-2015"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=361"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4507,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/361\/revisions\/4507"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}